Originally posted by Johnmike
It just seems like the people in the UK truly believe that the government should take such a strong social role, and it's really disheartening.

Disheartening that we're different from the US? There's an ocean between us, and it (along with our experience in history) has made us two different
nations. Difference isn't bad, although for some reason people think it is. And you can see this all through everyday life - people from different
races, backgrounds or cultures being discriminated against or even actively persecuted.
The state in the UK has taken on a much bigger role since the end of the Second World War because the people have given it a mandate to. They have
voted for parties who endorse such an outlook (for example, voting in the Labour Party in the 1945 General Election because of a desire for a
state-run healthcare system - the NHS).
It didn't just happen overnight. If you go into the history of it all, there are seminal events which changed Britain in a big way - WWII being a
prime example. You have to remember that Britain was just twenty five miles away from Nazi-dominated Europe and was bombed regularly, and poverty
became more abject whereas the mainland US was far away from the fighting and could quite happily get along with 'business as usual' because there
was no imminent threat. We may be allies, but allies doesn't mean twins. There are some big differences, and although the US might not understand
why a certain thing in Britain works differently to the US (and perhaps doesn't agree with the way it works too) and vice versa, both Britons
and Americans need to realise that there are reasons for the way things are and should respect that instead of trying to say "Our way is the best."
In most cases it isn't. People and countries need to be free to organise things their own way and make their own mistakes.
I'd also point out that no one has actually banned anything... it's just a group of people who said it ought to be banned. And you say you hear
things like that in the US, so it sounds like a common occurrence in both countries.